Marriage & group

Each marriage starts with lot of excitement for the couple. Lot of interest in the beginning with each other & rest of the surroundings. Lot of dreams, aspirations, expectations are involved. As the time passes all the things gradually fizzle out. Each try to prioritize their attention. Some to towards spouse or kids or profession or club or friends or game of cards etc..........The intimacy is seen only in wishing birthdays or anniversaries. But no surprises........we fail to appreciate a cup of coffee or dress or delicacy. Fail to give any surprises. All, which were exciting now seems to be just another routine.
group also started with postings from many with varied variety. some jokes, some forwarded mails, birthday wishes, snaps of present & past, blogs which made Little sense. But there was excitement. as time passed, most mails posted are birthday wishes...........
Did you made made a cup of coffee in the morning(which usually you don't do) when your spouse is still in bed and woke her/him with a cup of coffee?. Did you leave a note saying "I Love you" in a place where your spouse most likely to come, like fridge door, drawer, cupboard?.

There is nothing igniting in what I/we/you write, as we are neither professional writers nor writing in a forum where only good writing survives.It is as good as leaving a note on the fridge door ..... just to keep the excitement..................... Adding life to time!!!!